If a man wants you...

Is this true?

§ If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

§ Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.

§ Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

§ Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.

§ Slower is better.

§ Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

§ If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

§ Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

§ Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

§ The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

§ Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?

§ Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

§ If something bothers you, speak up.

§ Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

§ You cannot change a man's behaviour. Change comes from within.

§ Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or is in a better job.

§ Do not make him into a god! He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

§ Never let a man define who you are.

§ Never borrow someone else's man. Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

§ A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

§ All men are NOT dogs.

§ You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.

§ You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

§ You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary not supplementary.

§ Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.Right.
§ Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.

§ Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always knows where you are, and your always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.

§ Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.