23.7.06

If a man wants you...

Is this true?


§ If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
§ Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.
§ Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
§ Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
§ Slower is better.
§ Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
§ If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
§ Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
§ Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
§ The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
§ Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
§ Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
§ If something bothers you, speak up.
§ Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
§ You cannot change a man's behaviour. Change comes from within.
§ Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or is in a better job.
§ Do not make him into a god! He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
§ Never let a man define who you are.
§ Never borrow someone else's man. Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
§ A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
§ All men are NOT dogs.
§ You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
§ You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
§ You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary not supplementary.
§ Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.Right.
§ Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
§ Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always knows where you are, and your always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
§ Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

5 comments:

pugly said...

A big, fat YES to all of 'em :-)

Forgot to add one thing, though:

"A man who feeds his woman well is definitely for keeps."

izso said...

Uh.. feeds?

"A woman who puts on too much weight, is fat"

XD

I don't particularly agree with all the points there. But hell, different guys different situations apply.

naz said...

eh, married oredi still reading all that nonsense? ;)

NinJaMoo said...

Pugly & Izso: You need food to survive...can't survive on love alone you know! Hehe...

Naz: What to do? Still get sent this stuff...;)

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